Quality Over Status
Nobody ever asked how you spend your Tuesday afternoons.
We grew up answering the big questions. What do you do, how far have you climbed, what's the title. Maybe the wants that are actually yours live in the smaller ones instead — whether you laugh much, whether your Tuesday afternoon belongs to you. You're allowed to care about your Tuesday.
Monday.com Cuts 20% of Staff Citing AI Transformation, Joining a Roster of More Than 20 Firms Blaming AI for Job Cuts · source →
It's worth noticing how quickly the big answers can stop being ours to give. This week, a few hundred more people learned that the title they'd have offered at a dinner party was, in the end, a line item on someone else's spreadsheet.
Monday.com told the SEC it would let go of about 20% of its workforce — just over six hundred people — as part of what it called a transformation of its product, marketing, and go-to-market operations. It joins a lengthening roster. GitLab cut roughly 350 workers, about 14% of staff, and said plainly the savings would fund AI infrastructure. PayPal has mapped out cuts of around 20% over two to three years to pay for a $1.5 billion AI transformation. More than twenty companies have now named AI somewhere in the paperwork explaining why their people are leaving.
What's quietly notable is the mechanism. This isn't only software quietly absorbing tasks until a role thins out. In several of these cases, headcount is being converted directly into capital expenditure — salaries traded for compute, labor budget moved to the data center line. That's why the cuts are landing at profitable companies as often as struggling ones. There is nothing broken to fix. There is simply something else the money is wanted for.
Consider what that does to the questions we were raised to answer. What do you do, how far have you climbed, what's the title — these were supposed to be the durable ones, the ones worth organizing a life around. But they were always answers held on someone else's behalf, subject to a restructuring plan you never saw drafted. A title can be revised in a filing on a Tuesday morning. Nobody has to ask your permission.
Maybe that's not cause for despair so much as recalibration. The smaller questions — whether you laughed much this week, whether the middle of your Tuesday afternoon belonged to you, whether the work felt like yours while you were doing it — turn out to be the ones no filing can amend. They were never impressive at parties. What if they were the ones that actually held? Not as consolation for what's being lost, but as a reminder that some of what matters was never on the org chart to begin with, and so was never theirs to cut.
Six hundred people at Monday.com learned this week that the answer they'd have given at a dinner party — the title, the company, the rung — was revisable by someone they'd never met. That's a strange kind of grief, and it's a lonely one, because the story we've been handed says a job is a personal achievement, which means losing it must be a personal failure. It isn't. Salaries are being converted into compute at profitable companies. There is nothing broken about the people in those spreadsheets. But you cannot talk yourself out of that shame alone — it dissolves in company or not at all.
So here's the small, unimpressive move: find one person today and ask them something no filing can amend. Not what they do. What their Tuesday afternoon actually looked like. Whether they laughed this week. If they've been let go, or are quietly bracing for it, this is the conversation that reminds them they were always more than a line item — and if they haven't, it's practice for the day one of you needs it. This is how we build the thing that holds while the org charts get redrawn: not with a plan, but with a few hundred people asking each other better questions. Humanity's collective answer to the AI age starts at that scale, one honest afternoon at a time.
Internal · Mindset
Consider running today's choices through a quiet filter: before you decide, ask yourself, "Would I still want this if I could never mention it to anyone?" Notice which decisions get lighter under that question, and which ones lose their appeal entirely. You might also notice a third category—things you'd still choose, but for completely different reasons than you thought. That's where quality lives, underneath the story you were telling about it.
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So today we looked at what happens when the title turns out to be borrowed, and why quality — the texture of an ordinary afternoon — is the part nobody can revise for us. Status is announced; quality is lived.
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